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Is he gay or bi? I want to ask him out!

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Question - (2 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 August 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I like my manager at work who is a male cancer, i'm a female leo.

I'm in my twenties, he's in his thirties. I can't tell if he is gay or bi, but he is very flirty and touchy with me. He singles me out at work and tells everyone that he makes me nervous, and that he makes me blush. He will call me out and say that I don't like him, only to get me to say that I love being around him. He tells people that i look pretty everyday, and when we're alone at work he'll whisper that he loves me, and when i ignore him he will say, "did you hear me? i said i love you." I AM nervous around him, so i will say, "uh ok." He'll stare at me across the room intensely and bolts over next to me when i am flirting with another guy. When im walking behind him, he will put his hand behind his back for me to hold i guess? He will apologize after he asks me to do a task and sometimes locks arms with me. Signs that he is gay: He was dating a guy not too long ago. Say's "sweetie" a lot, but does not act or talk flamboyantly. He once said to another gay guy at work as he was signing a paper, "this is going to be extra gay."

I really want him to be bi.....I've never liked a bi guy before so I don't know what to look for, but I'm totally up for it because i really like him. I cried in front of him at work after i had been putting up a huge front, and he was totally there for me. I want to ask him out, and while I'm not scared of being rejected, I AM scared of looking like an jerk when I find out I could be asking out a gay guy. Help!

I am seeking input from everyone! straight, gay, bi. thank you!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010):

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Thank you for your feedback. Are you straight, gay or bi?

I would just like to know who i am getting my feedback from.

Thanks again!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010):

I dont think hes gay or bi, just plane straight cause he wouldnt do any of that stuff unless he truely liked you.

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