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writes:I am deeply in love with someone I can never have. That special person left and I am very broken hearted. I start to do stuff, like, loose apetite and sometimes eat like I don't care at all. Everything reminds me of that person. I also vomit a lot. It's been 3 months and I still vomit and get real dizzy. Is it normal to vomit a lot, especially after that person has left 3 months ago? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMum would be happy that he left... She doesn't approve of our relationship... Other boys are... different...
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reader, natmarie +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Hi, I'm sorry you are still vomiting. I;m gald you wnet to the doctors. Have you talked to your Mom about how you feel? maybe she could help you out? or you could even try to find another boyfreind to take your mind off him? Nat Mariexx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNatmarie, doc says I'm fine...How now? Just vomited twice yesterday... You know how you leave your parents side for a while and go on a school camp or something, you start to miss them like crazy? And then you start loosing appetite and stuff? And your stomach gets all weird and funny... Yeah, I feel like that. I miss that person...
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reader, natmarie +, writes (4 August 2010):
Great. :o) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Natmarrie. I will go see my doctor =)
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reader, natmarie +, writes (3 August 2010):
I wouldn;t assume that your vominting is due to this. It has been three months which is a long time to be vomiting. Go see your doctor to rule out anything more serious. Natmariexx :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFirst, thank you all for answering my question. I really appreciate it. I really want to stop vomiting and stuff, so I will take your advice, but I have no desire to get over that person. I know I have to, one day, but I still love that person very strongly. What's more, I can't have that person. Should I forget (no intention to), or should I still hang on? Maybe there's still a chance, who knows?
P.S To the anonymous girl who fell in love with her teacher, this person is a teacher too! Except I didn't leave, that person did... You're really lucky to actually take a photo with him... Once again, thanks guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): I know how you feel. I understand the "love sick" feeling. I completely fell head over heels in love with my teacher. Im 16 and left school in May so the day I left, I spoke to him and he signed my shirt. He wished me the best of luck and said that he knew I would do aces and succeed. He had a photo taken with me. I expected him to teach me next year for A-Levels but hes now left. The thought that I would never see him again, tears me apart. I have no appetite and could literally cry whenever I look at his photo. It isnt just a "crush". Eventually, it will get better. It will take time but your feelings will fade. I cant promise when as it could a month, two months or a year. You just have to move on and try to forget. Easier said then done, I know but you cant do anything. You just have to live with it for a while. But trust me, everyday it does get better. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): Honey, I am so sorry you're going through this. Two similar situations have happened to me. The first time I was 16 and I had cared about this guy for 2 years; and when he graduated high school I was broken hearted. Over the summer I went out with friends and kept myself busy and finally got over him. The second time just happened 5 or 6 weeks ago. An exchange student came to my school and we really clicked even though he has a gf. I know I'm not her and he's been with her for 3 years, but I keep reminding myself that I will see him no matter what, no matter how much money it costs me to fly over there. All I can say is you obviously cared deeply about this person. Trauma affects us all in different ways but you need to get out of this cycle. Talk to someone you trust, get out with friends, pick up a new hobby, get rid of depressing music that reminds you of them, and just take a step back. Things will get better if you want them to. It will get better by 2 main ways: time and personal mindset. I hope you can find happiness and get over this obstacle- you will feel so much better and wiser. Good luck sweetheart!
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