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*ishal sharma
writes:I m 19 yrs guy..i started masturbating since 15 yrs of age..at tht time it was jst a fun for me,but now it had become my habit..now i masturbate once in 2 days..i have become lean and skinny..i cant control this habit..i want to get rid of this habit..what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, StrayTogether.com  +, writes (2 August 2010):
 I agree that once every two days is NOT excessive! I'm a female and, if my man is unavailable, have been known to masterbate several times a week. Otherwise, he and I tend to have sex 5 or 6 times per week.
If you feel that you're obsessed with masterbating and/or sex - and again, at every other day, I disagree that it's a problem - consider counseling or speaking with a doctor.
As for being "lean and skinny," I think they're two different things, with "lean" being considered good by most and "skinny" not so much. I also don't think that either has to do with masterbating. I would think, however, that being sexually satisfied would make for better health. If you're concerned about your weight or health, look at other aspects of your life and see what may be influencing your eating habits. On the other hand, at 19, I've known young men to just be losing some of the 'baby fat' aspects of their bodies and growing into themselves, if you will.
Regarding finding a girlfriend, I disagree that you need to do this in order to satisfy your sexual urges. One should find a girlfriend (or boyfriend, in the event that you're gay) because you want a relationship, not because you want sex. If all you want is sex, continue masterbating.
Fondly,
Jill
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (2 August 2010):
 I don't think that once every 2 days is too much. some people do it a couple times a day. self pleasure isn't something to be ashamed of. do it whenever you feel the urgue.
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reader, rivi +, writes (2 August 2010):
With all due respect you can ignore answers from girls who don't need sexual release in the same urgent physical way that boys do. I doubt you'll get a single response from a male telling you you need to cut down.
From my discussions with others and my own experience I can tell you that once every two days is not remotely excessive : probably even lower than average for a teenager if you don't have a gf to enjoy sex with. In fact physiologically if you tried not to masturbate at all you would just probably soak your sheets with sperm while you sleep at least once a week. That could be embarrassing at 19.
That stuff is NOT destined to remain in a lad's balls !
So relax. Main thing now is to find a gf : if you enjoy masturbation you'll find actual intercourse many times more enjoyable.
Luckily you are slim so your tight ass should help as lots of girls like that. Plus there's plenty of stuff on here about how to get a gf..
Stop letting this issue - which is a total non-issue - distract you from the task in hand [ so to speak].....
Good luck and peace profound.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (2 August 2010):
 You could try masturbating only when you really really want to. That is, instead of actively seeking out porn or chatting online to find someone so that you can masturbate, do something ELSE and if the urge to masturbate really takes over, you can definitely give release to your sperm.
Your being lean and skinny does not have anything to do with your habit; at your age a lot of men have just gone through a growth sprurt and take some time to fill out.
Also, once in 2 days isn't really all that bad...though your mileage may vary.
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