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Help!!! I love my friend's boyfriend...

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Question - (2 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a friend (we arent that close to be honest) who has a really gorgeous boyfriend. We arent close anymore due to her stirring trouble in an argument I had with a mutual friend. This will sound mean but she really is one of the ugliest girls I have ever seen. She also is a compulsive liar and stirs trouble and I wouldnt trust her at all. This lad she stole from another friend about 1 week after they split up. I recently met her boyfriend for the first time and fancied him instantly and im sure the feeling is mutual.

I really dont understand why he likes her so much. I will admit that I am tall, thin and attractive but we also have a lot in common as we are quite intelectual and share a lot in interests. Im the complete opposite of her. She isnt top grades. At one point they were "engaged" she was 15 at the time. It was complete rubbish. Even though he does care about her, it was obvious she was deluded and it was made up. She also said she was "pregnant". Hes 19 but she is very immature for her age. To be honest, I think they are only together because she will give him sex and has no morals or ambitions. I just cant get him out of my head. Im not the kind of girl who tempts lads in on purpose and I wouldnt get off with him while they were together. Any advice?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2010):

i think u might wanna see what he is about first before u try to steal your man...there might be more to their situation than what he is being said

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A female reader, Barbielashes United Kingdom +, writes (3 August 2010):

Stay away from him! If they break up and you and him are still friends then see what naturally progresses.

you might not like her but he obviously does!

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