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Should I worry about my fiance loaning his sister money for Christmas?

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Question - (11 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My fiance' has just told me Sunday (November 8) that his sister told him that she may need him to loan her some money to do X-mas shopping for her 3 kids.

Yes, she's married but, why is she looking for my fiance' to help her out? He-- my fiance',is talking about giving her about $200 to X-mas shop for her 3 kids.

I dont understand why she is looking for my fiance' to loan her money, and her husband works at an auto service store, which means he makes a little more than my fiance'.

Am I wrong for being concerned about this?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009):

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Thanks for all responses. I will consider them all thoroughly and carefully.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2009):

No you're not wrong. Ask him why she needs to borrow the money. It could be that because of the recession that they're in debt or something. But you need to know why.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009):

I'm not sure that "worry" is exactly the right word, but it certainly gives you a question to explore about his relationship with his family. If you don't think his lending (giving?) her money is appropriate, then you need to find out why he feels it's a good idea. If he's someone who feels the need to "help out" his relatives all the time, it could affect your financial well-being when you become a family yourselves. Get to the bottom of it now, and you might save yourself a world of heartache later.

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