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anonymous
writes:Why don't people mind their own business?! It's really annoying. Don't they realise they're hurting others? I don't know what to do? People have been talking about me and writing messages on msn/facebook which are hinted at me! If they got something to say, why the hell don't they say it to my face? Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): so should I sit back and let it all happen?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): refrain from lashing back. i have been in your shoes and it is very hard to take the high road. I just made it my policy to be the bigger person and keep my integrity... I didn't find anything that helped at the time but later the person did it to someone else, and then someone else...and now pretty much every one knows that it happens to us all. I lost some lifelong friends over it, but managed to feel good about myself...and to me that was the most important thing of all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): it's not abuse so I can't do anything about it. It's just stuff like "Some people hurt others and change." I know this is hinted at me because of something that happened recently but it has got nothing to do with others!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): well when they do write stuff on social networking sites they don't try to make it obvious that it's hinted at me! but i know it is, i think I'll just ignore it for now but it's hard!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): thanks for the advice, it has helped, i will keep my head up high
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 November 2009):
 Cyber bullying is the lowest of the low. they do it because they are chicken livered sad pathetic little people.Do your best to ignore them and to hold your head high.
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