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36-40,
*uckedmermaid
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. He was a bachelor his whole adult life and frequently traveled for international sex, hetro and transexual. He was very sexual in the begining of our relationship but now rarely wants to have sex together and seldom initiates it. He has a hard time coming and rarely fondles me.When ever I am gone he spends a great deal of his time surfing porn, tranie and shemale sites, for what appears to be hours on end. He denies this, but I know because I check his laptop history.He does this when he is at the office or when I am gone for the day.What's up? Is he gay? just bi or sick?
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reader, fuckedmermaid +, writes (1 December 2009):
fuckedmermaid is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI must be going crazy cause he promises on a stack of bibles that he's faithful and brags about how it's against his nature to lie (ie: business dealings), but I have tested him and found he does lie, not all the time...but still, it's hard to tell what REALLY is up.
We're getting a new place together...it's more expensive and out of my ballpark. I figure if he's got the income to afford it AND will be spending the money anyway... AND if he loves me, it'll be cool.
I saw a guy that looked like him on a pornsite,,,and wonder...perhaps, dream?
hmmm
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reader, Full moon temptress1  +, writes (11 November 2009):
i feel he may find it hard to have 'normal sex' as before his sex life has been so experimental.I think the more you experiment with wilder sex,the harder it is to have close intament relationships.If he is denying going on these sites and you know he is,this sounds like an addiction problem.Try and get him to go to a sex theraptist,and work at the problem together.Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): well i'm not sure what the problem is but i am sure that there is one. Have you asked him? What is his age, that to can make a difference. If he is having a hard time with erections he may be embarrassed for you to know. Or it could be something altogether different.
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