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writes: I'm 16 and me and my bf (18) just broke up. now im talking to this guy tht i have been on and off with since i was 13 and he was 15. hes now 18. we had sex one time over the summer and we sometimes talk, on and off. lately i have been talking to him a lot tho, yet every time all he wants to talk about is sex. he always asks for naked pictures and i usually send them jus so he will shut up. it does feel good to hear his nice comments, but now im starting to feel used. like he jus wants to have sex and thts all. he lives 45 mins away, but over the summer i was at my aunts house a lot, and he is always there when im there. he says he rly wants to see me, and goes to my aunts house on holidays bc he knows i will be there. hes really sweet and i really like him but... over the summer, i was talking to him and my bf (well ex) at the same time, then i broke it off with him and me and my ex had been together since then until jus recently. this guy makes me happy, i like talking to him, but i feel like he may jus want sex. i feel like i may be trying to fill the void of losing my bf by talking to him....even tho i rly rly rly like him. what should i do? i feel like i should ask him wht HE wants and if we would ever start a real relationship... and if he says no then jus move on (obviously) but what if he says yes? ...idk if im over my ex even tho i kinda think i am. im so confused. wht do i tell this guy??
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): I think you have answered your own question. It does sound like this boy just wants sex. Ask him about it and see what he says. It's always hard breaking up with someone because you miss the attention, and this boy is giving you attention but maybe you could get that from someone else who values you for more than just sex.
Try to find some interests to fill your mind so you are not only thinking about relationships.
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