A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:When I don’t see my friend he acts differently because I think he misses me. When I and he pass each other walking in the halls, he won’t look at me or wave if I wave back. He always makes fun of his cousin and it makes me laugh even though she’s my best friend. I was dismissed one day from school and I said bye to people and he looked quickly at me, we looked at each other for a short moment then I left. Then last Thursday I finally saw him to talk to him alone on the bus. As usually he started the conversation and it was cute when he played with the little kid in front of him to make me smile. He always says “yeah that sounds like something you would do” as if he knows me and he does. He remembers a lot of what I say. He knows what day my birthday is I thought but he asked me last week in our conversation. His cousin, my best friend, said that when I was gone he was quiet. She said that he never played with the little boy on the bus when she played with him and he only did that to impress me. Then at lunch I was talking about being a bridesmaid for my cousins wedding and she shocked me by saying “You should take Robert as an escort.” I feel as if she is trying to get me and Robert together or she knows that I like him and am trying to get us together. Every time I’m with him and I do something funny he laughs or rolls his eyes and makes a look. When we talk he either plays with his hair or stares. He always sits with his legs and his body facing me! Does he sincerely like me? Or is to shy to ask me out?
View related questions:
best friend, cousin, escort, shy, wedding Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 November 2009):
Yes, he likes you. But he's shy. So talk to him and see what happens. That's the only way to be sure. Good luck.
A
female
reader, Blod +, writes (11 November 2009):
 Sounds pretty familiar to me...
I'd say he likes you. Your friend can see that and you wouldn't be wondering if there was nothing there.
I think he's shy. All the signs are there that he likes you, but he probably doesn't know how to behave when there's other people around because he's a bit shy.
If you like him and want him to ask you out then start dropping hints. Flirt lightly and tell your friend how you feel. If she thinks he fancies you and she knows you like him then chances are she'll give him a kick up the backside. And if he really likes you, he should muster up the courage to make a move.
Good Luck. X
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): Aw, it generally sounds like he does like you.
personallyy i think you should be upfront with him and ask him, if he is shy then be gentle with him like he is the only person he can trust, that should open him up.
buttt before you do this, you should get your mate to ask him.
on the other hand he might just wanna be mates with you or feels sorry for you so he is nice to you.
buttttt if im wrong the bestt thing to do is be straight up and ask him out if you are sure you want to and know that there is a bit of chemistry there and you defintly know for sure theres summin between you, otherwise if you ask him and hes like ermmmmm huh lol .. hope this answer has been helpfull babe, good luck :) xxxxx
...............................
|
