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writes:Help.. I have been married for 12 years and have 4 kids. we went through hell to be together the whole world was against us and now everything is falling apart. He manipulated me thinking every argument was my fault and my whole world came crashing down after i found out he had cheated on me. I asked him time and time again he made me think i was some kind of loony for accusing him, i was going out of my mind not knowing. Eventualy he said sorry he had made a mistake.Its been over a year now and I still feel my hearts been ripped out but i believe you should have the heart to forgive. Its fine for two weeks then we argue and he sulks from days to weeks now. Hes done this before he still doing this behaviour which really annoys me. I also cant be bothered and talk to him its like a cycle now. i think what did i ever see in him, the breakdown was due to lack of communication, here he is today ignoring me da on end he'll say we end up arguing so i rather not talk. I am so sick of it, i just dont know what to do or which way to turn plese help me...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 November 2009):
Unless he agrees to actually come to couselling with you, then you need to ask him outright if he wants this to continue. I'm afraid you may have to give him and ultimatum, because this won't end otherwise.
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