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female
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30-35,
*JCC
writes:Hey,Recently my boyfriend and I broke up and I want him back. We broke up over a week ago and are on speaking terms. I see him at school every day and today he told me that the reason he broke up with me was because he was the one doing most of the "work" in the relationship. I feel terrible because I know it is true. I loved him a lot and still do, how can I make it better? I dont know how he feels about me, if he still loves me or not. I want to get back together, I miss him a lot and he's a great guy, I dont think I was the best girlfriend to him as I could have been and I really regret it! Any tips on how to get him back? And fast?Thanks :)
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reader, xnickx  +, writes (11 November 2009):
 Think about he might feel. If you are on speaking terms, thats good. PROVE to him that you are willing to put more effort into a relationship, by doing things for him now without letting him know you expect a relationship in return. And yes, Dr Bex is extremely right. 100% honest with him on your feelings. It helps tremendously.
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reader, Dr Bex  +, writes (11 November 2009):
Firstly I'm sure you didnt mean to let him do all the work in the relationship. Its very difficult when you are young to know how to be in a relationship - (without sounding patronising to you). If you really like this boy then why don't you call him in the evening and tell him how you feel. You need to be honest about your feelings. Sometimes we do take things for granted and if he was doing all of the work as you say it can make us lazy and unappreciative. We always realise what we had when we no longer have it. You need to call him or even best talk to him face to face just the two of you. Tell him you are incredibly sorry for how you treated him and that you do love him and want a second chance to prove it to him. If he really loves you still - then he'll accept your apology and give you another chance.
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