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writes:I have been married to my hubby for 3 years, we have a son who is 15 months old, and it seems as though since i have had my son our relationship has broken down, we dont talk anymore, we are having fininacial difficulties that are stressing him out, but i really feel that he does not care about me anymore and just cares about his son. when i ask him he always says that his son is who he looks out for now and thats it. i just wish he would apreciate me more, an example is i cleaned the house from tom to bottom the other day and he walks in from work and dont even bat an eyelid. just feel like why do i bother sometimes, when i dont get recongnised for it. i get in a mood with him and he dont even ask me whats wrong so i can explain, why dont he ask me? IT'S LIKE HE JUST DONT CARE. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2014): You can tell you husband that part of your son's development is having a happy, healthy mother. An unhappy , unhealthy mother will contribute negatively to his development. You can also say that when you didn't sign up for that situation when you both got married. You can ask him how would he feel if you had said that to him, had stopped trying to make him and the marriage a happy one?
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