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anonymous
writes:Right basically, my boyfriend and i have been together nearly 7 months. Just under 1 month after we started going out, he kissed another girl on a drunken night out. Now, he told me about it the day after and i said i forgave him...however, reccently i got really wound up and upset about the whole cheating thing and he said "why dont you kiss someone else to make yourself feel better?" I said know as i knew that wouldnt achieve anything.Here is the problem. I went out last night with some friends from university and got quite drunk. my mate (a guy) and my 2 female flatmates came back to our flat and they went to bed and this guy and me went into my room, ate pizza and watched tv. after that we just sat on my bed, i put my head on his lap and closed my eyes to rest. He was running his fingers through my hair, kissed my head, kissed my forehead and just when i was about to kiss him on the lips, he knocked his head on some pins on my wall which kind of made me think "woah what am i doing?" and i said to him he better go back to his flat as we both had lectures in the morning.The thing i want to know is should i tell my boyfriend about the "almost" kiss, or should i just keep my mouth shut? Im really confused! Please help me! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): Why do you want to tell your boyfriend about the almost kiss? It's not even a kiss for God's sake.
I'd say don't tell your bf about it. Firstly, he'll think that you're being immature for wanting that sort of revenge. Two, you're not attached to that guy so you're not cheating him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): Telling your boyfriend about your 'almost kiss' is just your way of wanting to make him feel the hurt you felt by his disclosure. The thing is, you two had just started going out when his kiss happened. The two of you are now a well established couple and your disclosure will do nothing but rock the boat and cause serious damage to your relationship.I think it is time you get over his kissing someone else in the beginning of this relationship. That particular kiss is not going to break your bond with him. He obviously chose you over her. Your continuing strife with him will tire him out and drive him away. No one likes to argue with someone, especially over something they cannot change.Ask yourself this....do you want to be with him? Do you want to have a good and happy relationship? If the answer is yes, then do the things to make it a happy relationship! You have the power to do so.
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