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writes:So he has naked pictures of friends of his who like him and send it to him. He and I broke up but we trying to get back together. I really love him. It really bothers me that he keeps this pictures. I know I have no right to tell him to get rid of them. But if he really wants to get back in a relationship with me he needs to loose that crap? Thx for taking the time out to read this. I can use any advise you got.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): I dont really think there is an issue with keeping ex-gf pics as long as he really is done with the ex's and not keeping in contact. But you may want to keep this in mind that one day your pic may be a fond memory in his spank bank :-). You want rethink giving him pics or a sex tape.But I am having a problem visualize your issue. You broke up with him over other things, and now you want to get back together with him and you feel these ex-gf pics need to be part of the negotiations? Why is that? Did you break up over trust issues in the first place?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 November 2009):
He doesn't sound like all that great a guy if he's keeping naked pictures of his friends! Why did you break in the first place, because I'm not sure how interested he really is in you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): Well I do somewhat understand where he's coming from, for some reason most guys, myself included, are extremely interested in seeing people they know (if they're attractive) naked. And since you two aren't together I can understand why you are hesitant to tell him to get rid of them. But you can take the middle ground and talk to him about it. Don't be confrontational and don't make demands. Just say to him...I want to get back together with you but it bothers me that you have these pictures...if we got back together would you be willing to get rid of them?He might be acting this way because he doesn't realize how much it bothers you. See how he reacts and talk to him about it. After all, if you two really love each other you should be able to talk about these kinds of things.
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