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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Why don't people mind their own business?! It's really annoying. Don't they realise they're hurting others? I don't know what to do? People have been talking about me and writing messages on msn/facebook which are hinted at me! It's not abuse so I can't do anything about it. It's just stuff like "Some people hurt others and change." I know this is hinted at me because of something that happened recently but it has got nothing to do with others! well when they do write stuff on social networking sites they don't try to make it obvious that it's hinted at me! but i know it is, i think I'll just ignore it for now but it's hard! If they got something to say, why the hell don't they say it to my face? Help!
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reader, Louise-uk +, writes (11 November 2009):
 Hello.
We all meet people who won't mind their own business, and upset us because of it. Clearly you're annoyed at them, but you're right to try and ignore it. You seem clever enough to see through them and what they're doing, so take comfort in the following - clearly nothing remotely interesting is going on in their life so they have discuss something that isn't even to do with them.
Try to ignore it, or delete them from facebook! That way you won't have to see it, so hopefully you'll forget it all.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): This is true and helpful. Thanks guys. But I still wish I could get them back somehow! x
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reader, SV +, writes (11 November 2009):
People who meddle with others for fun are usually very insecure with themselves and so picking on an easy target is their way of making themselves feel good. The only solution to this is to ignore them and just carry about your business
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 November 2009):
People always meddle with others and hurt them to make themselves feel better. They won't say it to your face because they haven't got the nerve. Just ignore it. At the end of it, who really cares what they think? Nobody.
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