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writes:Wel i'm 14 and i have been dating a guy who is 16 for 4 months now the problem is that i act stupid everytime i get a guy who really loves me,wel i get angry at him for making small mistakes and i haven't given him a real deep kiss ever since we started dating he has been patience with me but now i think he has had enough and might want to end our relationship i really love him and i don't want to lose him because he has been really good to me.what can i do to show him that i love him and that i am sorry for how i have been acting? Reply to this Question
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reader, Louise-uk  +, writes (12 November 2009):
 The rumours might not be true. But if they are, he seems like a complete idiot and you are much better without him. There will be a lovely guy out there who will be patient and caring and everything else you dream of.
Try to be positive and not give him any more thought. Throw yourself into study or a hobby, and gradually you'll think of him less and less.
Good luck with everything!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey,thanks for your answers...i tried talking to him but he seems to be ignoring me and nowadays he seems to be hanging out with some girls...i know i shouldn't jump to conclusions but i know he likes flirting,because we me through flirting..and i've been hearing some rumours about him cheating i don't wanna believe them but i have this feeling that they are true...and for the kissing thing i just don't like kissing i don't know why i have tried to get over it but i just can't go through with it
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): Talk to him, let him know how sorry you are by telling him. If he really loves you, he'll wait, till you are ready. Both of you are still young, I know, I know, you probably hate hearing that. But just do only what you feel, and don't let him pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do.
Just be yourself, that's all you can be.
You say you get angry at him, for making small mistakes, are you sure you're in love with this guy. Be honest, with yourself. Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): Talk to him, let him know how sorry you are by telling him. If he really loves you, he'll wait, till you are ready. Both of you are still young, I know, I know, you probably hate hearing that. But just do only what you feel, and don't let him pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do.
Just be yourself, that's all you can be.
You say you get angry at him, for making small mistakes, are you sure you're in love with this guy. Be honest, with yourself. Hope this helps.
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reader, Louise-uk +, writes (11 November 2009):
Hello,You need to tell him that you're sorry if you think that the mistakes he makes are small. It's always best to be open with your boyfriend.But what 'small mistakes' are you referring to? Although they may seem insignificant, if they make you angry you should have a little think about why that is.My first boyfriend made me a little angry. It was maybe because he was late calling, or he promised he'd do something and then forget. But gradually it built up until I got really annoyed and tried to end it with him. When your boyfriend annoys you a little bit do you tell him or do you let it build up also, and then say something later ?It's good that your boyfriend is being patient, but is there a reason as to why you haven't given him a deep kiss? Once you have answered these questions yourself you can begin to explain your feelings to your boyfriend. I hope this helps,Louise
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