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writes:my girlfriend left me six months ago. she never game a reason but 3 weeks ago she she sent me a request to chat on yahoo messenger.she wanted to know if i had deleted her from facebook and if i still go out dancing, because she goes out dancing a lot and never bumps into me. now i can't stop thinking about her, when i met her she told me about her life and all the bad things she had been trough including getting an std from her ex-boyfriend.and with all that i gave her a chance and decided to be with her just so she can dump me with no reason at all. i still have feelings for her even know she don't deserve me. i treated her with love and respect but she didn't care about that. how do i get over her? why do i still think about her? please help!
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reader, april1116 +, writes (13 November 2009):
 you still think about her cause you gave her your heart and loved her and she broke it in tiny pieces, sorry i know how that feels, well you have to cut off all contact with her and let her go theres plenty of fish out here im sure that would be happy to be with you so... let it go and move own cause clearly she didn't love you and she broke your heart just don't get yourself back in that same boat with her again.
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reader, lakers_lover09 +, writes (13 November 2009):
first, realize why you broke up. truely understand. because if u really feel u did everything right, than the breakup wasnt in ur hands at all. but if u did something wrong change it. u need space from her. SERIOUSLY.and if u can never get ovr her than maybe its best u never contact her. why cause pain for urself? go out with friend and meet new ppl. STAY AWAY FROM PLACES U KNO SHE WILL BE. if she turely loves u, she will be back and thats all u can do about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): You still think about her because you still want her. To get over her, you'll have to truly understand why both of you broke up. Not just admitting that something went wrong but confront it because you are still in denial.
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