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writes:helloi have a big problem, i've been going out with this girl for a month, and i love her though its embarrassing to admit. See everything was going well until we started having arguements. one time we didnt speak for three days but eventually sorted everything out thankfully, then it happened, i just found out that during that 3days absence, my mate had kissed her, what do i do? how do i deal with both of them, please other than answers than dump her and kill him. thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): I have a couple of things that red flag your relationship.First, you have been going out for ONLY a month and are already having arguments? It'll only get worse. Maybe it's a good sign that you aren't compatible.Secondly, you are embarassed to admit you love her? People fall in love at first sight and if it is true love, there is no way anybody should be embarrassed about it.It really sounds like she is a convenience item to you, you don't view her as a partner, but maybe a friends with benefits more? Now you are worried about your mate getting in on the action? Maybe you need to be serious with yourself.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 November 2009):
Well I wouldn't say dump her and kill him. What I would say is this. You have been together for a month and she has already kissed another guy who is your friend because of a few arguments. That shows that she is not ready at all for a relationship. If she can't deal with small arguments and you've only been together for a month, then I would really suggest that you'd be better off without her. What happens when you argue again and she goes off? As for your friend. Your so called best friend kissed your girlfriend. You can't trust him either, can you. Use your head and not your heart this time. Both of them have betrayed you, and you can do better.
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