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writes:so i love my girlfriend we've been goin out for 6 months n its been great...the problem is i lost a friend because of itwell this is the story when i met her she had a boyfriend we talked and talked for hours we became really close friends my friend had a huge crush towards her he talked to her for a whole year but she never really felt nothing for him she just liked him as a friend, by then i was starting to like her so one day i just told her what i felt for her and she told me she had the same feelings for me we started flirting and taking everything more serious i told my other friend because i felt bad and he told me to tell my friend what was going on, he got very mad and told me if i went out with her i would lose a friend. Everybody told me to not stop to go out with her so i did and now we're very happy. I've found out he's been trying to get with her telling her he loves her and they can be happier than me and her are right now she tells him she loves me!so my question is did i do good or bad of going out with her??? help!!! thanks
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 November 2009):
Somebody was always going to get hurt, and it was him. You did what you had to with your life, and at the end of it, let's face it, she just didn't like your friend, she liked you. That's all there is to it. He of course is now jealous, and trying to wreck it between you. So focus on your girlfriend and make sure she knows she is your number 1 priority. He'll get over eventually.
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reader, xnickx +, writes (11 November 2009):
 You did a great thing, your so called friend is being selfish.
What he's saying is if i cant have her then no one should be able to.
He's obviously not being too friendly by trying to steal her off of you is he?
If you’ve been with her 6 mos, then I think that that speaks for itself and you should stay with her. Obviously things are going great, do yourself a favor and don’t ruin it.
Your friend is obviously not a good friend and you are better off without him.
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