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writes:She has a possessive bf of more than 3 years. She really want to break up with him but he dosent want. She told him, "how can I be in love with you if you force me to be with you?". She knows I love her and she also knows I have waited for her for almost 2 years. She has feelings towards me but sometimes, she keeps asking me to move on and says she is in a confused state. We even talked about our future of us been together. She says she really dont trust guys and thinks all guys are the same because of what her bf did to her, been unfaithful to her before, broke her trust many times. She's afraid what if we both were together for some time, then I will change my heart and leave her and find someone else. I really Love her from the bottom of my heart and I have already waited for her very long. We both are turning 19 soon. I really want her in Life. PLEASE help! Thanks! (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): Lets rip the bandaide off here. You are in a classic doormat situation of the "nice guy". You can wait another 5 years and it wont make a difference. Go google this- you are living the cliche. Whenever she does dump the abusive boyfriend she will pick up with someone else- not you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 November 2009):
My guess is she's worried about that boyfriend of hers. But the truth is, if she won't leave him to be with you, then you really do need to try and move on, no matter how hard. Don't wait for someone who just isn't interested enough.
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