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writes: my ex and i might get back together...were apart for a year and have been talking for two months.I was randomly mentioning on the phone that there are two girls at work that still dont say hi to me for whatever reason..sometimes people just dont like others for no reason...and he said probably b/c you are prettier than they are..and then he also joked saying did you steal their boyfriend maybe in college?....and i said no but he also said its not really a big deal regardless if someone did that..if someone was breaking up with someone and they meet someone else, that's not the other person's fault..so i just said yeah, its the responsibility of the person in the relationship.so it made me think...well is this what happened with us? did he meet someone else and thats why it orginally ended or maybe i am just really overanalyzing and knit picking at details? what do you think? am i over analyzing?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 November 2009):
Though asking questions can be a good thing, it can be a bad thing. You're trying to get back together, and you're worrying about the past and coming up with different ideas about what may or may not have happened. Focus on the future instead.
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