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*roubled_Gal22
writes:Dear Cupid,I am having a huge crisis with boys and my best friend!! A few weeks ago she asked out a guy that I really like, but before she did... I never told her I liked him.He accepted and now I am really confused. In school they are not in any of the same classes nor ever see each other at lunch or breaktime. Plus they both live quite far away from each other. So i don't understand how they like each other so much, as they don't really know each other. I never told my best friend and still haven't told her about my crush. I never wanted to tell her in the first place as I thought it would spoil our friendship, plus before she asked him out... I never even knew she liked him!!My other very good friend, who I have known for ages, gets surprisingly good theories about people's relationships, but i'm not sure if i can trust just a 'theory' this time. She knows all my secrets and is trying to help me figure this trouble out.Please Help me and give Advice!!Love Troubled_Gal22
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): Dear Reader,I have boy trouble to,I think I love This Guy but he is dating my friend and has a crush on my best friend and my best friend has a crush on him so I know what your going through kinda. Well, it really depends on your problem if you love him then you should wait for him and your friend to break up and then 3 monthes later make your move so your friend has time to get over him. Dont try and break them up because your just gonna lose a friend, if he is "The One For You" He will be head over heels for you when the time is right and you will know and feel it. Remember though dont break them up because what it really says is " I dont care about my friends because I would hurt them to get what I want" Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): i think the aboves are being discouraging, you should definitely talk to both of your friends about this, and depending on your best friends reaction go from there. hopefully she'll understand how you feel or perhaps there has been a misunderstanding?
good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): Thanks for your help but, idon't now if my friends boyfriend likes her!! She asked him but everyone thinks that he likes someone else.On the way home fromschool today, he was walking in front of me and my friend, and all she wanted to do was talk to me. I haven't even seen her give him a hug more than once! How does this make sense?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): Come on, Move on, he likes her she likes him, distance isn't an issue, and sometimes it's good not to be in all the classes with your boyfriend as that makes it hard to talk to your other friends.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 November 2009):
I'm afraid you're just too late. She likes him and got there first, and he said yes because he likes her and wants to get to know her. That's all it takes for two people to come together at first, and now you have to mend your heart and find a way to move on.
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