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36-40,
*oo Bird
writes:I met this girl about 3 months back through a mutual friend. Went on a few dates and i thought things seemed to go well. Then one night we went out for drinks and i ended up spending the night at her place and we hooked up (no sex). Another two months passed and nothing really progressed, we still hung out and did things together but I could never tell if she's interested in going further or not. She contacts me on instant messenger frequently, always replies to texts and if she misses a call of mine she usually returns it promptly. If she wants to take things slow that's fine, i just worry about being burned if/when she decides she really isn't interested in anything with me. All in all i'm just confused. She wouldn't stay in such frequent contact with me if she didn't like me right? She seems to have alot going on in her life right now and the last thing i want to do is push her too hard and in return get pushed away.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (11 November 2009):
If she asked you if you liked her...telling her yes was not a mistake. She probably asked you because she likes you too. If you tell a girl no when she asks you that question that would definitely make her probably not want to talk to you again. If she's interested you, she won't put you in the friend zone.
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reader, Boo Bird +, writes (11 November 2009):
Boo Bird is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dunno then it could just be me. she even went so far asked me if i liked her and i told her yes (maybe a mistake). The discussion never really went past that.
i guess i just feel pressured from friends/society to make this work out right away since it seems from what i'm told/read/my own experiences with relationships they have to blossom immediately or i'm forever banished to the "friend zone"
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (11 November 2009):
I think she's interested in you, but probably waiting on you to make the move. A lot of women are afraid of telling guys that they are interested in a relationship of any kind or that they do like them for fear that the guy will get "scared" and run off since they don't really know what the guy is thinking feeling.
I think she's into you and you're obviously into her. So I think you should let her know and see how she feels.
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