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writes:Ok, what to do what to do:I am going on a bus tomorrow with guys. It is a soccer team so both teams are going usually we play truth or dare or spin the bottle but when it comes to me almost no guy wants to kiss me. It is not that I am pretty. I knew that because I have started acting and usually I am told I have a great face and body (I have been in some commercials and a few guest starings on TV shows all in Europe)The guys don't know about it. I want to be liked because of me not because i am pretty or in movies)I live in America but these things got broadcasted in Europe!What to do when guys don’t want to kiss me? What to say? How to feel? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 November 2009):
They'll be scared. Guys aren't all that confident. When a beautiful woman looks at us, we usually think they're looking past us. You'll find they do want to kiss you, but are scared. So tease them a bit and see what happens then.
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reader, Blod +, writes (11 November 2009):
 Don't take it personally. It sounds to me like it's them and not you. They're probably too scared to kiss you. Especially if other guys are around. There'd be a lot of banter afterwards and no matter what they'd find a way to tease that person about it.
So I'd say it's nothing to do with you on the whole. If they liked you and it was just you and him then they would probably go for it. X
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reader, dazey  +, writes (11 November 2009):
i reckon they do want to kiss you really ;)thing is with lads, especially your sort of age, is it's all about looking cool and running with the pack. If a guy kissed you and he wasn't very good you might say something and he'd be forever known as johnny-sloppy-snogs or whatever. most lads can't risk this sort of thing. It sounds to me like you might seem quite formidable to a teenage boy, I'm sure you couldn't keep the acting thing a total secret, eh? Either way, don't take it to heart.If a guy won't kiss you for this reason, and you want him to, perhaps you could try goading him a bit if he looks reluctant. For example: "what's the matter.... you're not... SCARED are you??" If it's a choice between risking possibly being called a bad kisser or definitely looking like a pussy then it's, as you lot say a "no-brainer".Just make sure if you do get a snog NEVER to kiss and tell, even if it's awful. You want people to like you for you, so be a nice girl.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (11 November 2009):
 One of the secrets kept from young people is that blokes can be scared of attractive young women. They think they couldn't possibly be worthy. Find a nice young man and reel him in.
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