A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I was referred to a paid online dating site by a close friend and have met someone that I am very interested in...he's charming, funny, well-educated, etc.Because I am knew to the online dating scene, I have a couple of questions. I am hoping I am just over-analyzing the situation. *Since 'meeting' less than 2 weeks ago, we have exchanged 30+ emails. (Most are short, 3-4 sentences.) He has yet to ask for my phone number. I feel like we need to take the next step (i.e., phone calls and/or meet) but am not sure how to initiate this. I don't want to get emotionally involved without figuring out if there is real chemistry.*I have no picture included with my profile because I work in the criminal justice field - he has not asked one question about what I look like or if I could provide pictures. (Yet, he has several pictures on his profile.) Is this alarming or unusual?Thanks in advance! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): I think the next step would be for you to send him a picture. He may not want to appear shallow and ask for it, but I am sure he is curious as to what you look like. If you are sending it to him, no one else will see it.
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