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Why is there always discomfort?

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Question - (11 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Why is it, that every time my partner uses his hand or mouth to stimulate my clitoris, it feels good for a few moments but then starts to not necessarily hurt, but sort of cause discomfort? It's enough to make me twitch, so to say. Sometimes if I try waiting it out, it stops, but can sometimes return. Whenever I do it to myself, it never happens. He's not being rough, either, and I'll even tell him to try and be gentile, but that's when it feels like nothing happens. It's strange, and I just curious what to make of it. Thoughts?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009):

I thought about that, but why would it be sensitive when he touches me, but when I touch myself with just as much pressure, it's fine? That's where I'm a little confused.

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A male reader, generalist India +, writes (11 November 2009):

Orgasms happenes in cysles and lasts typically between 5 to 10 seconds in one go and again returns say after 3 or 4 minutes...

the time may change womanwise but yaa the cycle do exists..

its important that u ask your BF to stop for a while and again start after a small break,by that time he can focus on other parts of your body where you get equal pleasure...

u know while having sex its very important that u communicate continuousley and find out where can you please each other and how....and you should also be able to enjoy and make fun of all the messes that happen...

believe me your problem will be solved...

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