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*ontessa.
writes:I'm 16 years old. well ive found myself kind of being a little bit slutty i guess you could say. i go out and party and just try to have fun. well i met this guy. Hes 18. And going into the Army. I dont believe age matters. But in the laws eyes it does.Well one night we hooked up during my spring break. I knew it was just a hook up But yet it wasnt expected. He had told me that he wouldnt do anything with me besides kiss or such because i was a minor. Well one thing lead to another and we had sex. A few times that night. Once was protected that i know of. Then the next day we went and got a day after pill.Then i didnt hear from him for awhile. One day he texted me and asked what was up. And i was like hey wanna hang out. And so he came over. Again one thing lead to another. We had sex again. Unprotected sex may i add. Then a few more weeks went on. I got a text from him to hang out. So we did. Of corse you know what went on. This was all in a months period of time. Its been 2 weeks since we have done anything and i still havent gotten my period. Im usually pretty regular. So im going to wait about another week or two then go take a test. If it comes up positive how do i tell this guy.I dont want to ruin his future or mine. Im still in high school. But then i dont believe in abortion. But what if thats what he wants. Because i know he will get in trouble with the law. And this might trouble him from getting into the army. And when and if i tell him how do i say it. What if he doesnt answer my calls or texts. Well please people i need answers! Thank you all for any advice you may give me. Anything helps!
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reader, Contessa. +, writes (5 May 2009):
Contessa. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo all of you who have helped, thank you, it is very appreciated! I've been keeping all of your advice in mind.!thank you all.god bless you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): First off don't wait a week or two go buy a pregnancy test as soon as possible. If it comes back posotive take 1 or 2 more. If they all come back pos then go to a doctor or tell your parents and the father.
He new that you were a minor and he wasn't and if you got pregnant it would be his responibility to undertake any criminal charges. If you are pregnant and you tell you parents etc... they won't neccesarly want to press charges.
I wish you the best of luck!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 May 2009):
 Write back once you know for sure whether you are pregnant or not, don't go borrowing trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): He shouldn't be in the army if he can't obey the law in his country.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 May 2009):
He did the crime so he has to be willing to do the time.
Tell him and your parents.
It's going to be tough and I can't guarantee he won't get in trouble but that is his problem not yours.
You need to concentrate on you and your baby.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (5 May 2009):
 If you were so worried you wouldn't have had unprotected sex would you! This is why age does matter, because if you were older and more mature you wouldn't be in this predicament.
You need to go and see your doctor and find out if you are pregnant and what your options are, and don't worry it, won't stop him getting in to the Army they're pretty desperate for man power in Afghanistan at the moment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): In responce to your question...If your parents are understanding and you know they will support you with the child if you are pregnant then tell them, Also if your test comes back positive tell the lad, he needs to pay the consiquences of his actions especially because you have to, you might just be having irregular periods which most girls do so dont worry too much, my mate has been through this before, some pregnancy tests arent accurate so make sure you take a few to be certain. Make sure you don't tell your parents until you are certain aswell, otherwise you might create world war 3 over a false alarm.
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