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writes:I am writng for advice on how to get my wife to come back home. My wife recently moved out, at my request, after six months of her telling me she didnt love me any more and wanted to move out. We have been to many councelling sessions and the whole thing has been up and down through the entire six months, sometimes were very promising others bad. The whole thing came about when I noticed a very distinct change in her moods she became very angry and cynical about everything, especially me. I suspected she was cheating on me because she had cheated on me before 12 years ago and she behaved the same way then. This situation was very traumatic to me and my children at that time and I was determined not to go through that again. I am 99 percent sure now, that that is not the case, although I cant rule out an emotional affair. She had recently got a new job about 8 months before this began and in that time things were great. We were very close and loving with similar goals. There are 3 amazing children involved, one 21 in college, one 18 joining the navy, and one 11 year old girl. I would like her to move back in and give this another shot, she says she does not want to be under surveilance, one minute she wants a divorce, the next wants to give it more time. She travels at her new job and has done some questionable things but I believe it was just learning the ropes of the job.We have been together for 24 yrs and I would like to make it more. I didnt want her to move out in the first place but you can only be told so many times that some one wants to move out before you say well go then, get out. She is living with her father now who supports my decision and also would like to see her back home. What should I do????
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): Watch the movie "FIREPROOF" and then check out the "Love Dare" book. It's an excellent guide to changing someone's heart without demanding it.
Good luck.
Kathi the wingspouse
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