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Help needed! What should I do...? I really like him!

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Question - (5 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Basically I fancy my Brothers mate (Harry) and we both kind of like each other the signs he gave me were:

The signs he gave me where:

• Staring at me in to my eyes

• Makes me laugh

• Comes out and knocks on my door too see me NOT my brother once asked where I was.

• Sometimes stays out in my garden to wait till I come out.

• Both like each other BUT he does not show it only when my brother is not there.

• Sometimes gets in to my personal space

• Gets jealous when I talk to his mate or if I pull him away and chat with him he will notice.

• Looks at me when he's talking to other people

• Says hi to me or just stares in to my eyes

• Stares a lot (esp. right into your eyes) and holds the stare for longer than usual

• Eyebrows raise when they he sees me

• Eyes get "soft" when he looks at me

• Hangs around with me ALWAYS BUT mostly stands and talks to my brother and just stares at me BUT does not make it that obvious

• Puts his hands in his trousers

• Says dumb things just to keep you talking e.g. likes says to my brother “Oh if you don’t do this then I might “give you a lap dance” loll

He found out On Saturday that I fancy him because my BROTHERS Girlfriend she could not keep her mouth shut so she told my brother to go outside and speak to Harry

So my brother did?

My brother just asked him “so what’s going on with you and my sister” and blah he said nothing? And then I don’t know what my brother said but then he called me outside. So I came and then HARRY just said to me look yeah “don’t take it the wrong way but I don’t like you in that way and like I am not being racist but I like English girls I replied as soon I got in I went upstairs?saying “Oh its alright with a smile” and cried because that did hurt me the way he said it and it was so quick

So then I was alright after then I came back out and I ignored him and all a sudden he stairs at me again and just watches me so I stair back and then I think to myself what is going ON he told me does not like me and now stairs at me :S

But then Yesterday he came knocking on my door I was near the door because my mum was talking to him and his mate, So I see again Me and Harry just stair at each other while his talking to my dad? I was like to my self OK this is confusing HE knows I fancy him but he just decided to say NO to my face and then AFTER stairs at me?

I really really like him allot BUT I don’t know why he stairs at me while his talking to my mum dad: S

I know he knock on my door today and tomorrow because he lives just round the corner to me. But then again I know he comes to my door just to see me and my brother.

He smokes weed allot I don’t know if that’s affecting him that’s why his looking at me like that?

Also he knocked on my door today I don’t know why but when I opened the door he was speechless he did not know what to say so I said my brother be down in a minute?. Why was he speechless

And also i was cumming down with my dad from work and my brother came to me to talk and Harry just was staring at me i don't know what to do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

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Look people I AM sorry if i posted this question but far as i saw today maybe i am stupid to go after him and finally i gotta MOVE ON u people are RIGHT?

THANKS X

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (5 May 2009):

DrPsych agony auntYou have already had lots of advice on this boy from plenty of people here at dearcupid in your previous numerous posts...why not take some of it.

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