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*azzie1
writes:Confused why do I feel like I can't let go of a man who has cheated on me twice and been physically abusive.I feel that every time I say I'm movin on and when he calls me I give in. The last incident occured last week when he got upset cuz he said I was disrespecting him and push me on my head so hard..I walked out and then the next day we made up..I have 2 boys ages 14 and 8 who r not his and I thank god they have never witnessed anything. I know he is no good for me but here I am feelin bad for what happened today he called me while I was out to lunch and since my call went to voice mail on the first ring he accused me of being with another man cuz he is not stupid and he knows about all the tricks I told him I wished that I was with another man cuz the day I meet someone that's worth it I'm leavin u like a bad habit.he hasn't called should I be happy..need advice..
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reader, hannita09  +, writes (6 May 2009):
 He has traumatized you and made you feel like you need him! Don't wait for another guy to come along leave him now! It will never change he is guilty and will always accuse you and treat you that way! I was in a relationship similar to that! Just get out now you don't need to wait for someone else to come along, just take some time for youself! If you jump into another relationship you will bring all ur bagage and insecurities and be scared that the new guy will be the same! Take some time leave him and have some alone time and maybe start dating some guys:)
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (6 May 2009):
 Yes you should be happy. Of course you can't let go of him. I suspect codependence. Look it up and study it. You might have some of the symptoms.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): hi honestly i think u deserve much better every woman is worthy nobody should even touch you u dont deserve it hun i know its hard to let it go but with time u will heal .lookk in the mirror and say to yourself ur beautiful that u deserve better in life.You are worth everything dont let anybody tell u different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): I was in an abusive relationship for 3 and a half years,but he started acting adusive=physically,verbally,mentally,and psychologically...
But i took legal action and found myself so weak with this tainted personality,i felt like i'd lost myself,like i'd betrayed myself...i know what ur going through,and trust me,if you are worried or care about the welfare of yourself and your children you will GET OUT! leave him! and if he tries to contact you,trust me,take legal action!
u cannot let him violate you like that and leave u feeling like uve been the victim,please...leave him...for ur safety,he isn't good for you...
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