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writes:i have known this guy for 10 years, i didn't see him for about 8 years tho but now im single and going out again i have started to see him out with his friends. about a week ago i was out with a friend an we went bak to a friends of his for some drinks after we left the club, we ended up spending the night together, nothing happend we just shared a bed an talked all night then this week he asked me if i wanted to go bak to his, as much as i wanted to go i had to say no as i have a son at home an can not just make on the spot decisions like that. i have regreted saying no ever since, did i blow my only chance or will there be more? im now really confused as to how he feels about me an if i should tell him how i really feel about him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): yes he does know i have a son, he knows pretty much there is to know about me!
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reader, amyasks  +, writes (5 May 2009):
just tell him how you feel,if you think he is serious,that is.you can usually tell what a man is interested in after meeting him a few times.if the vibes you're getting are good,and if he seems genuine,then go for it!
remember,he's no mind reader..he did make the first move so now its your turn.tell him how you feel and see how it goes.all the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): First of all, does he know you have a son? Because unfortunately that is a big deal for most guys, and if he does like you than that should be something he is a least aware of. As far as blowing your chances go, if he does really like you then he will be persistent in asking you to hang out; when you like someone, whether its a guy liking a girl or vice versa, if you gave up after one try I dont think many people would be together. You have to give this guy time and another chance to ask you to do soemthing, and if hes moving too slow its never a bad thing to ask if he wants to hang out (guys appreciate the girl asking, since its always been the other way around). Good luck and I hope this helps, just be patient and optimistic :)
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