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writes:I love my boyfriend so much, and he's everything to me. But last weekend i got drunk and tried to kiss one of my close male friends. I can't even remember doing it, but people who were there saw me. I don't know weather to tell my boyfriend or not, because nothing did actually happen, but i feel so guilty for even trying to do a thing like that. If i leave it and somebody else tells him i no it will really hurt him. Shall i tell him, or just leave it?
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (5 May 2009):
 He should hear it from you. How would you feel if you heard a nasty rumor about him cheating on you?
Look, you got drunk, and nothing happened, but he has a right to know that. You know how rumors go. He will probably be told that you actually had sex with that guy!
Let him hear the truth from you, and let him react as he will. He quite possibly will be angry at first, don't deny him that. Hopefully he can see that you came clean, and that is what's important.
Also, if you get that sloppy when drinking, then don't enter that kind of situation. Hold off on the alcohol. You now know that your friends don't have your back when you're all drunk. You need to act responsibly and take care of yourself.
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (5 May 2009):
 It depends if you like drinking or not. If you like drinking, then I wouldn't tell him. He would realise that drinking makes you do stuff you wouldn't normally do and that would annoy and upset him.On the other hand, if you don't like it that much, tell him. Personally though, I would just tell him. Every good relationship needs trust, and if you can't tell him the truth, when he find out there won't be any trust left.x
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