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writes:I broke up with my partner 4 weeks ago and I just can't get him out of my head. I finished it but I tried to change my mind and he just said fu*k it we're done. I went away for the weekend packed all his stuff, he came to collect it when I wasn't there and that was it.I feel so crap right now. I do miss him but I feel he needs to do some growing up. I am always the one to go running after him every time there is a problem.How do I get him out of my head and is he feeling the same as me. I don't want to be the first to contact him because I feel he has let this go this far. I do still love him but I just don't know how to get through this. I text him on Saturday night and just said hi. I got nothing back. On Sunday he phoned me about his post (he sounded a bit drunk). Then I was out sunday night and sent him loads of I love u typed texts and now I have heard nothing from him. I am so confused and feel like crap.Any advice, does he really want it over or am I just not accepting it
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (5 May 2009):
 Sounds like he wants it to be over so leave it at that. Don't contact him with any sloppy msgs, if you need to tell him something, such as he has post then msg him and keep it to the point. You have post here, I'll leave It on the doorstep! ....I know that you're feeling lost at the minute, its normal after a breakup. You need time and you need to keep busy. X
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reader, hailey_heartbroken +, writes (5 May 2009):
by the sounds of it he is hurting yes,,he collects his stuff when you arent there so he doesnt have to see you and know what he is throwing away.There is no way to get him out of your head, me and my ex have been split nearly 3 years and i think about him everyday, you just need to do things to occupy yourself or go out and have fun you will soon see that other guys r attracted to you and he will soon slip a notch or two to the back of your head thats how it worked for me and although i miss my ex i love the attention i get now.You need to stop texting and ringing him though i know its hard but this makes yourself look desperate and pathetic no man wants a woman lke that you need to sexy yourself up and become independant, disappear off the scene for abit,it may take a few months or years but he will see what hes missing out on...trust me!!!
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