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writes: I feel torn about this, because I can accept an honest answer, but I don't like to give up on dreams. This has nothing to do with sexual relationships, but music was, and still is, the thing I have always loved more than anything else. I just had my 30th birthday, and I'm feeling very sad because I've realized that I should have finished my music degree and been a musician. I chose another career instead, and I regret it so much. I don't want an unfulfilled, restless life, but I feel that, at my age, finishing my music degree just sounds delusional. Everyone tells me that in the music field, that no one over 30 is really acepted, I suppose a formal degree program would accept you but I've been told discouraging things, for example, it's too old to play in a band. I'm also feeling torn because if I did change careers then I wouldn't have time to get married and have my own family. I'm feeling sad because time is running out for me. There are so many things I want to do and I worry that it's too late.I know I should get on with life but I can't stop feeling sad. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): Not to be famous for the sake of being famous, but my dream was always to be a famous guitar player. For people to know about my achievements and for many people from all over to know and enjoy my music... that was my dream, and I'm so scared it's dying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): It's to be successful. To do that as more than a hobby.
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