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*awaii08
writes:First of all Im a bi guy who is in love with a straight guyHes the one who made me realised that im into guysI know he is straight cuz he got girlfriend.. Theyre both on my class so I see them every day in school which makes me jealous and angry.To be honest i cry durin the night asking myself why this is happening to me?. I mean there are lots of bi and gays around here but why him? He is also my first true love that i will do everything for just to make him happy but it is impossible..I cant move on or anything, its been 2 years now but nothing change. I still love him.Please help me or give me some tips to how can i move onThanksPs. I was thinking to kiss him on the lips then hit me on the face so i can move on.. I really want this to happen
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (6 May 2009):
 why go after what you cannot have- answer to torture yourself for whatever reason,,,
either you are getting signals off him (he might be hiding himself or just loves the power and attention-hard to tell as i am not you) and your giving them back too or you need to get over this by avoiding contact. its very simple even when you dont go out with someone getting over them follows the same process, avoid and distract repeat ad nausem. only YOU have the power to help yourself...
look after #1
best of luck
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reader, kawaii08 +, writes (6 May 2009):
kawaii08 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for ur advise :)
Well im 100% sure that im bi. I do find both guys and girls attractive.
I like this guy alot not... I love everything about him. Sadly he is straight..:(
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reader, Nikki babiiee +, writes (6 May 2009):
i was the first one who answered this question i answered anonymously i just wanted to know if my answers helped u in any ways
hope ur situation improves and the information did help
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): k well this situation sounds a little tricky but u just need to think, do you really love him or are you just infactuated and want him becasue u cant have him.
or maybe u want him because theres some sort of a connection and he just hasnt realised ut yet, remember u sed this guy made u realise u were bi are you sure thats not the reason u feel like u love him because he made you who you are.
i cant pretend i understand what kind of position ur in i can only give u my opinion. u know sometimes we get an attraction to someone because we feel like we can find our true selves in them however this is not always the case and we tend to get hurt, have u tried other relationships with other guys and are u 100% sure about ur sexuality maybe this connection is to this one person because u see urslef in him and thatsa what makes u feel comfortable if you try other relationships with guys and they dont feel any good then maybe ur not bi and u are just connected to this erpson in some way.. u know sometimes we need to help people discover their true selves and clearly this is what this guy has helped you do. u never specified weva u and this guy are frineds or just in the same class or what ever. some more information will help people understand the situation better however if u and this guy are friends and these girls keep coming along are you sure its not just jealousy or feeling like second best, i mean everyone takes it hard being put out of thier comfort zone and this could well be ur situation u just need to think clearly and try to not let it get u down.
hope this helps u babes
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