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How to make him last longer in bed or reassure him without being patronising?

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Question - (5 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 18 months now, and i absolutely adore him, trust him, love him and hes lovely.

He is my first serious boyfriend, first love, first proper sexual relationship.

However, even though sex isnt a dominating part of our relationship we enjoy it and when the times right, is a lovely way of expressing how i feel.

However, he is and has been having problems with early ejaculation.

Sex is only lasting 5minutes tops before he cums, and as a fit, macho, rugby player i think he feels disapointed and embarressed about it.

We are completely open and talk about it now and again and i try to reassure him that it is enjoyable, and that i would much rather be close and short with him than consider being with anyone else.

But was wondering if there is anything i can do as his girlfriend, to help him last longer or to help him feel more confident about our sex life.

Thankyou in advance. x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

Several ways to help this problem. 1: give him head until he ejaculates then let him pleasure you in other ways for about 30 minutes then have sex. 2: they make a product called anal ease which is made to cause a slight numbness. Put it all around the head of his penis and wait about 15 minutes then see what happens.

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (5 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntMaybe take things really slow. Otherwise he could see a doctor.x

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