Life's twist point

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 17 and have my bf of 32.i love him a lot and just cant stop thinking about him.he too loves me a lot we are apart and it isn't possible for me to spend a quality time with him.the fact is that i just cant live without my bestfrend and she knows everything about me .our friendship is awesome and we both always see that we give each other whatever we want,maybe it maybe suggestions related to our friend circle,our lovelife,our family problems etc.me and my bf know eachother mostly by phone,we communicated for the first time on phone since dec.my bestfriend too talks with my bf with great ease and first i just ignored it saying that i have a great friend and she wont come in between us.but now i have come to know that she too loves him.i know that she will never come in between us but this feeling ,that she too loves him,makes me feel insecure.my boyfriend too treats her as his best friend and he too tries to help her in all situations in her life.when we three are together he hugs me,kisses me,i'm happy for that,but i just cant avoid my bf hugging my best friend as a friend only and nothing more than that.i know that my bf is not that kind of a guy he takes her just as agood friend but still i do feel sometimes insecure.is this feeling right for me?my friend tells me thet she will never come in between us.but upto what limit i should trust her.plz suggest .this is my life's decision...

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