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writes:How early is too early to annouce a pregnancy. I just found out I'm pregnant, I have PCOS and it took 3 yrs for my husband and I to get pregnant with our first child, who was premature and died. This time amzingly We weren't even trying and I'm pregnant. I went and seen my doctor and he said I am about 6 week along. I want to tell my husband and everyone I know but is it to soon? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): Tell your husband now and wait til you are over the 3 months to tell everyone else. thats the norm anyway. Good luck with it and hope all goes well :)
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (5 May 2009):
 Tell your husband, but I would hold off on telling your family until you are 3 months along. Just to make sure that things are going well. The first 3 months, from what I hear, is the "trial time". Once your past that, spread the good news!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): Your husband should be super happy about it so I would tell him right away! I think as long as you know it is for sure, there is no point in hiding it, Everyone should be happy for you so why deny them that? I told everyone right away when I found out! Its such a fun thing too announce!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (5 May 2009):
 Well your partner should know now. It is his baby too (well I presume so at least). The rest, lets put it like this, if they are likely to kill you if they find out that you kept it from them, tell them. You two can share the secret for a little bit but it is not like you are going to keep it secret forever.
I understand you might be reluctant to tell everyone because you have fears it might go wrong again? But that is life, you can't spend your whole pregnancy worried about what might happen. If you have others you love and who love you you shouldn't exclude them for fear of hurt. How would you feel is say your sister didn't tell you she was expecting? Or your husband excluded you from something?
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reader, 48years  +, writes (5 May 2009):
 Tell your sweet husband ASAP. tell your mother at 3 mos., tell your employer at 7 mos.
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