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Why do guys like to play games with your heart?

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Question - (4 May 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *b47977 writes:

Why do guys like to play games with your heart? Its obvious sometimes how this guy feels about me but then it seems like he doesn't like me. It makes me sad when I don't talk to him and he doesn't care until later on. I don't like him playing games! Guys never share there feelings so you have to keep guessing. I'm so sick of guessing if hes mad at me. Sometimes he cares that people in my life are dying. I wish he would get my attention and talk to me like we use to but I know he will never go back to the way it was. He gets close sometimes but then he goes back to his new self. I miss the person he used to be and I tell him that but he says hes the same.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009):

I think i'm in a same situation as yours...

This guy keeps on saying that he likes me and cares about me. but all of the sudden his actions changed!! He used to flood me with email, call me on my mobile phone when he do have a free time...Flirts with me thru text messaging...but right now, it seems that he is not doing it anymore...

im more open if he will just tell it to me STRAIGHTLY or just ignore me altogether

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A female reader, mb47977 United States +, writes (5 May 2009):

mb47977 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for helping!

I will try either not talking to him and waiting to see if he comments. If he doesn't comment on my behavior then I will move on.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

Mixed signals are a variation on "Why do guys treat us like crap?"

The answer is the same. Tons of guys won't do this. But most girls are more interested in the guys that do. Girls complain they don't like it but their actions all say otherwise.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (5 May 2009):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntI don't think all guys play games. Maybe you just need to find someone who is more open with you, or you could start to be less open with him. I know two wrongs don't make a right, but then he will see how it feels and maybe he will change.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

both men and women play games. Men are more obvious, Women are more subtle. I should know

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

well maybe i think he has a nother girl in his mind and in the same time he doesnt want to lose you either....

but dont forget that u girls do the same to us..

i know a girl who likes to play with me like that!

so this is life 1-1

good luck

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A female reader, Reyna United States +, writes (4 May 2009):

Reyna agony auntThere are several reason why a person would send mixed signals,maybe they are afraid to get emotionally attached, they dont know how to express their feelings, or sometimes they even do this because they dont know how to cut someone off without hurting their feelings, but in reality, we will never know what is going on inside their heads unless they tell us.So i want to give you an advice, if he is misleading you and making you confused,stop trying to guess his issues and just move on, i know it is hard because you created a bond with him, but it is better to stop this right now than later when you have greater feelings for him. Stop wasting time on him and spend time with someone that wont hide what he thinks of you.

Good luck and take care....

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