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female
age
30-35,
*ontrolfreak
writes:I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now and I am extremely jealous and controlling. I was hurt in the past and he used to cheat on girls and has a really bad past but he told all of them about it when it happened and has told me that he hasn't cheated on me.. I get scared every time his mom isn't home, when he goes out with friends he used to smoke weed with, when he goes to a party [even if it's a birthday party], when he goes to his dad's [his dad encourages him to cheat on me and have as many girls as he can get], when he doesn't call me, when he doesn't answer, pretty much anytime that i'm not with him or talking to him i am worried that he is going to hurt me..I want to stop because he threatens to leave when i behave like this but, i can't get over my pain enough to trust him.. what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): You need to learn to trust him. This will take time. I am still learning how to trust my husband.
I've cheated before maybe once or twice, but I don't anymore.
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