New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Advice needed! I'm in love With My Teacher!

Tagged as: Forbidden love, Teenage<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (4 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so.. I'm in Love with My Teacher! I've liked him since last summer. But when i first started high school.. I hated him and i dont know how i began to like him!..

I cant stop thinking about him!.. I see him nearly every day but still thats not enough!..

i find it really hard to pick up the courage to talk to him..but he always ends up talking to me..and he probably thinks i dont like as i get so nervous i leave as fast as i can as hes always smiling at me or looking at me in class!And after class!..i do find that flattering!,I remember one time i offered him a sweet and he tried to pick up a conversation with and i practically leave within 2 secs! LOL!!..i want to be able to talk to him and feel confident in myself!

I find myself acting like a different person around him like i want him to notice me by making myself look like a loud person!,I really do love him..and i think we have a great realationship!..But i want it to go further like a friendly realtionship!..

Hes the only guy i ever think about..i find myself getting really jealous when he talks to other girls..he always gives me that cheeky smile when he does!..

My Friend said to him once "Would you ever dump ur wife for(name)?

And he said "Just tell me when!"..OMG..I was blushing for the whole day!..

I would love some tips on how i make it go further(Not sexually or anything like that)Though if he ever did anything to me i wouldnt report him =] =]!

Thanks for your time!

xxxx

View related questions: jealous, my teacher, notice me

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Oh God No!!..I wouldnt want to ruin his life!..But i find it so hard not to think about him!..and today my friend asked him..Did You miss(name)over the weekend and he said yes and was smiling at my for the rest of the class!!

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

how is she mature? She can barely speak to the man. He is married, and you are much younger than him, it will not work and it can't happen. I'm sure you think you're in love with him, but I don't think you know him as a person. Just as your teacher. You can be friends with him and get to know him better, but like the first poster said, their are consequences, and you could ruin his life if you try to take the relationship too far. Even if you don't tell on him, someone will find out.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009):

Lots of ppl your age have strong feelings for their teaacher, it normal. Remember you are the student and he is the teacher. Even if he seems to like you, its wrong. If you were to try to have a relationship with him he would get sent to jail or maybe never be able to teach again. It would affect his whole life. Do u really want that for him? Its hard but try to remember its not the right thing to do to go after him. Even tho your feelings are strong for him they will fade away with a bit of. time, maybe try to concentrate on other things, school, freinds and other guys your age.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009):

good for you! You seem mature enough i say tell him how you feel ignore people who say it is wrong there is no age range for love-love! not sex-im not saying have sex or dont but iam saying do what you feel is right!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Advice needed! I'm in love With My Teacher!"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.062531300000046!