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writes:My boyfriend likes to either be dominanted or be dominant in bed. I have figured out what turns him on. I on the other hand like it without the role playing every time. He either wants to pretend that I'm raping him or that I'm this naughty girl who is a stranger to him. This is usually 90% of the time. He also likes to call me names like whore, bitch, slut. Is this normal for a person in love to call his girlfriend these names in bed? Reply to this Question
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reader, ElleForLove  +, writes (5 May 2009):
Yeah, I think its normal! Its only for fun during sex and men just like being dirty! Get into it, its just a milder version of role-play and that harmless enough!! Enjoy!x
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 May 2009):
 This isn't something I would like, either. I remember that some time ago I read an article about why people would do this. The logic to it is that some people have grown up believing that sex is a dirty thing, and they can't have it unless they associate it with foul language, violence, et cetera. This might be his case.
I believe that it has come to the point when it bothers you. You should tell him that. I wonder if he can't have sex any other way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009): Some guys have this type of fantasy! So long as it doesnt bother you too much adn he is respectful and loving to you in other ways, then I wouldnt worry about it! Happy sex! :)
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