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He left and no goodbyes

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Question - (4 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *ucka4love writes:

What does it mean when a guy you been dating for 2 years and couple of weeks left without saying goodbye? Should i let him go or find out?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2009):

In most cases where they give no reason it's because they think giving you the real reason would hurt you more.

And 90% of those times it means there is someone else.

Talk to him and say you need to know the truth, no matter how bad, or you won't be able to move on. Tell him in a calm way and assure him you just want him to be honest as after 2 years he must owe you that. Ask him if there is someone else.

Yes it will hurt but at least then you can use that hurt to get over him.

Tell him that you wish he had had the balls to come and talk to you about his problems rather than running into the arms of another woman. But hold your head high and walk away. Don't get into a screaming match because he is not worth it.

Good Luck!! xx

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