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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend well lets just say has a very womanising past! He has slept wiv nearly 100 people. He was single for a long time and has only had one serious relationship of 5 years! He quite honestly says hes fucked up cos of something that happen in his past. The girl he was with slit her wrists when he left her and now he feels vulnerable if he lets people get too close. Ive been with him nearly 3 years. But we have split a few times because of the commitment issue and the way he pushes me away! I know since he met me hes never had what we had and i know he loves me hes just messed up and sometime he lets me down! We are trying again after a 6 month break! Taking it slowly as ive told him i want to settle down! I am afraid of getting hurt again by him and honest he has put me through alot! But im still here! I know he has issues! But i do love him. I also get paranoid cos i feel that he will want to go back to his old ways. Example if he dont text me i feel hes up to something! Hes a great lookin bloke. Has the charm. Make people laugh. And cos he has a lot of friends as girls. I feel they might be trying it on when im not around! And because of his past i get it in my head he is flirting with them! He does like to make out women love him. But in a jokey way! But thats just a front. Does he do this because he is insecure about holding down a decent relationship. And puts on a front so people would never know! But i know the real him. Hes always comes back saying that noone compares to me!
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (6 May 2009):
 I think he needs councelling with a professional, and I think you would benefit by going with him after he has had a few sessions alone! X
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