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My best friend said these awful things and now hates me. Should I forgive him?

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Question - (4 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay. I don't know what to do.

My "best friend" and i hate each other and it wasnt my fault!

Last year my auntie died and i was really cut up about it as we were really close and it was a shock. so when i needed my friends around my so called best friend pointed out a couple of facts:

. no one cares she's dead

. your a sympathy whore

. your using the death as an excuse to get popular.

I thought i had forgiven him but it's really hard. i need advice. Would you forgive your best friend for ever saying a think like that to you? please reply back.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009):

Oh honey no never forgive him thats an awful thin gto say and u need some new friends you deserve better than him

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A male reader, Trias21 Canada +, writes (7 May 2009):

I wouldn't name the person "best friend".

But forgiving really helps you a lot.

When you forgive you let the grief out of yourself and weight of negativity off your shoulders.

Miracles happens when people forgive.

It may be hard at the beginning but it's really worth it.

Wish you strength and wisdom!

J.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (5 May 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntFriends come and go throughout a person's life, I'd let this one go if I were you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009):

They don't seem like much of a friend to me... perhaps they have problems of their own they're trying to put back on you? Friends should be supportive and be there for you when you need them. If they can't be there at times like this, maybe you should work out if being 'fair-weather' is ok with you

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