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He says I'm perfect and wants to go one holiday... but then says we are not going out!!

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Question - (4 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2009)
A female , anonymous writes:

hi all,

I have been seeing a man for 6 weeks now, I have known him for years and together we have had the best times recently and spending oodles of time together, laughing, dating and we just gell together so well. He is going through a divorce and is free to date. He calls me all the time, texts me everyday and when he doesnt have his children he is with me. I guess were not officially boyfriend/girlfriend and are just dating. Im a popular person and news travels fast where I live. Last night I was out and met up with him later in the evening (we had both had a few drinks and I think perhaps people were asking him abot me), and he said "were not a couple you know that, do you think were a couple cos people keep asking?". Im feeling really peeved that he said that and dont know what we are or what im even doing in that case... He is loving, affectionate, and bounces right off be personality wise. We having great sex and everything really seemed perfect, weve been out for lovely meals, movies, have events all booked up for June and July. He wants us to go on holiday soon abroad. He tells me I am lush and his perfect partner and then that comment, slap in the face. I have deleted his number so that I cant contact him and let him do the chasing and see what happens from there... Any advice angels??? I dont understand, I know its only been 6 weeks but what am i meant to think about that??

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A male reader, ownpool United States +, writes (5 May 2009):

If he makes you uncomfortable, have nothing to do with him.

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