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writes:i like someone I really shouldn't like: my dad's fiance's 16 yr. old son: in other words my someday-will-be stepbrother. I know I need to get over it, let me say that again, I don't have to but I suppose it would be better to. I can't really tell him how I feel b/c that wouldn't go well. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Since we don't live together and won't unless he comes home on breaks and vacation(he has 1 more year of high school, it's not that bad. It's weird; he has this personality that pulls you in, like you can't help but like him,charisma I guess? The more I don't see him the worse it gets. He does flirt with me and that doesn't really help not to mention he doesn't have a gf but a girl who was his gf who he spends all his time with. I spent this weekend at my dad's fiance's house and it was torture! Not to mention I'm going on a trip in December to Vietnam with him,his mom, and my dad! Help!!!!!
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (4 May 2009):
 While it's not illegal or weird to date a step sibling, it certainly isn't encouraged while you still live in the same house and are minors.
Honestly, I would suggest to not bring this up to anyone in the family. I probably wouldn't even bring this up with any friends, because you never know what secrets they might just let slip.
If you need anyone to talk to, we are all here for you. It's good that you understand that this just isn't the best time to let your feelings be known. Who knows, maybe some day at Xmas when you're both in your 20's you will get together and like each other, and then it would be ok. But it would be very stressful on your parents now.
Just start hanging out with your friends more. Be nice to him obviously, be the less time you have to spend with him, probably the easier it will be on you while you work on getting over these feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009): just keep it to yourself don't tell him and be nice to him and maybe he might ask u out but if he does be cool ok and you'll be fine if not just be fine and act cool
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