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How can I prepair myself to leave it and start again?

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Question - (4 May 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female age , anonymous writes:

I know, I will have to leave my long term marriage. I have grown kids, and it is not really about parenting any more.

But I wonder how can you deal with the regret, you have after you leave.

One of my biggest fears, what is actually holding me back the most is that he will move on too fast, and I'm afraid to see this as I know, I feel very insecure.

I know, when you leave, you take risk, huge one but when you leave into another man's arms, it's easy at the beginning, but if you leave to the "unknown" where I would go, you really need to make sure you are ready.

Is there any good advice on this, how to get "really ready" to leave a dead marriage?

Everything had been tried... There is no more to go. So I just need to make sure I'm ready to face the music. How can I do that? That most secure way? And not fall on my face?

Thanks

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