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writes:ok well my ex has came back into my life after 4 years apart. He cheated on me twice with the same girl, now they have a 2 year old son. BUt i met him 2 weeks ago while i was out at a local bar. He couldnt take his eyes off me the whole night and then he came over to talk to me and started to tell me things i didnt wanna hear.Things like he never stops thinking about me and that him and his new girl always fight because she thinks he'll never love anyone like me. It has taken me almost 4 years to get over him and once i seen him again all them feelings that i used to feel for him came back to me. I love him still even with what he has done but honestly i couldn't take him back. he tells me that he'll always love me but i asked him how can i love me and cheat on me like he did. once we parted he left me heart broken, i still find it hard to trust anyone and always have my guard up when a man comes along. I have had plenty of flings but nobody has ever came close to making me feel like he did, i dont think they ever will. i was just getting myself back to normal and here he comes again and im back to square one, thinking about himall the time wondering if he's thinking about me. He has started to phone me again and i still get those butterflies when i know its him ringing me. All what was said was under the influence of alcohol but i meant everything i said to him (although i didnt tell him absolutely everything) but he hasnt mentioned it again. We decided to be friends cuz we know we love each others company but what do i do if i feel myself falling for him all over again? i know i'll get my heart broke, i could never trust him again but i cant help the way i feel. i dot think i'll ever be able to let my guard down to anyone else, although i feel that after 4 years i think i need to. what would you do?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 May 2009):
 Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Don't go down this road again, you know what's at the end of it. Give your self some time, stay busy, and when you finally do meet your true love you will look back at this near miss and will be glad you didn't let yourself get suckered a second time.
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