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*hepoisonx
writes:I got a relationship for over 7 months now, but now my girl wants to breakup with me because she said she didnt felt anything for me for quite a while now.. I begged her to give me 1 week to make her fall in love with me again, but she said it wouldnt work. After an hour she told me she would give me 1 week to win her back for me.. but I dont know howwe went to her house afterwards and we watched Scary Movie, and during the movie she looked at me quite a few times, and when I asked her 'hey whats wrong?', she answered me 'nothing, I'm just looking at you'. Is that a good sign?I really have no idea what to do! I'm so in love with her, I dont wnat to lose her Reply to this Question
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reader, Johnnyboy03  +, writes (15 March 2009):
 This may hurt a little, but your relationship is over. She is humoring you because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
You have to let go and move on. It will be hard at first. Trying to win her back when she has already decided to move on is impossible. You will just push her farther away. The best thing you can do is stop hanging around her.
Get your own life away from her. Maybe at some point you guys can rekindle the relationship, but she isn't attracted to you anymore at this point in time. Pushing her will just make it worse.
Hang out with your friends, meet other girls etc. Who knows, after you are doing your own thing she might realize she misses you, but if you pressure her that won't happen.
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reader, surewhynot? +, writes (15 March 2009):
Dude- get rid of her! If she feels that way about you, she is not worth your time, and you are just wasting hers and yours. Love should be an equal playing ground. You are probably just very physically attracted to her-don't feel bad, it happens. If you don't let her go, your just going to get hurt. Mark my words.
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reader, Good Girl +, writes (15 March 2009):
 Don't worry so much. Worrying causes more problems in relationships than ice, bad haircuts and soiled undergarments. Make her laugh and it will be okay.
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reader, thepoisonx +, writes (15 March 2009):
thepoisonx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your comment :) i'll go do that!but in fact i really am sad about it, i just cant stop crying and stuff, havent slept all night and i threw up a few timesits not that i dont wanna be single, its just that i dont see a life without her in it, she changed me so much from what i used to be and now she wants to quit.. i dont want that to happen because its so much fun when we are together!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): tell her about how in love with her you are then!i know its cheesy and cliche and might seem tacky or something but seriously go buy her chocolates and flowers nad write her a poem and make her a card and everything there is to do.you dont seem that sad about itmayb your just afraid of being single?
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